Now I’m not a great fan of warfare - it tends to shorten
people’s lives - but as many see it as a necessity there’s no point in pretending
that it isn’t there - which brings me to socks.
My gran used to knit socks for sailors. I have no idea who
these sailors were and I hope that she didn’t either, but she would sit
in front of her few sticks of a fire and knit away whilst I listened intently
to ‘Listen with Mother’ on the Home Service. Doesn’t that make me sound old; I
guess I must be getting there.
My gran would knit and knit, sock after sock. She’d been
doing it for years, parcelling up socks for the soldiers on the front in the
first war, then later balaclavas for sailors in the second. You didn’t have to
pay postage. Just knit and take them off to the post office and the post office
did the rest.
Imagine that today, an act of unity and kindness supported
by business and the government. Maybe it still happens but my cynicism tells me
it doesn’t. Everything has a cost these days and everybody wants paying. Sometimes (often)
I wonder what happened.
My mother in law knits blankets - well she did until
recently - beautiful random things with wool we would get for her from the
discount and pound shops; we couldn’t go in without checking for wool at a
pound a ball. The colours never went together but they were made with care,
mainly to give her something to do and keep her hands and brain moving.
But that was in the past, a long three weeks ago. Neither
her hands nor her brain moves much now and when we go to her empty house to put out
the bins and feed the birds I see her needles and the blanket she hasn’t
finished and it makes me sad. It seems her life has ended coloured as randomly
as one of her blankets.
In my drawer in Wales I have a pair of woollen
socks that she knitted for me. Thick socks to keep the cold out like a
fisherman out on the sea. They have lost their shape and don’t fit very well
and I’m no fisherman, but they are made with care and they kept her hands
moving. I think I may start wearing them again.
Ever feel like crying?
Sharon Taylor on FB
ReplyDeletewhen you feel like crying just let it come out, it is never a good idea to keep tears bottled up x
Jayne Butterworth on FB
ReplyDeleteSending love xxx know that feeling too well. Xxx
Andrew Height
ReplyDeleteNo fine words can explain what we have to do. It's over.
Kate Bell on fB
ReplyDeleteOh andrew I'm so sad reading this, am away so not kept up to date, was really hoping for good news for you all xx