Tuesday 29 March 2016

More of the same...

Sorry, but it takes you over.

Another day like yesterday and the day before and the one before that and so on and so forth. Everything is on hold, not that everything was very much in the first place, but this inability to move forwards through no fault of my own isn’t really me. After all, not moving forwards is usually my fault and that’s just fine and dandy, but this limbo is quite frankly horrible.

Of course it isn’t Joan’s fault either. All she was doing was a good deed by holding open that door for the woman that has destroyed her life and now even my stone heart breaks when I see her and what she is becoming. Of course there is always hope, but generally that turns out to be bollocks along with positive thoughts and God working in mysterious ways.

I’ve never been one for not knowing what to do and have lived my life by ‘do anything rather than nothing’, but there are times when there really is nothing to be done. I guess this is one of them.

I’ve become a ‘we’ll have to wait and see’ person for the first time in my life I think. My natural inclination is to rage and ‘do’ and rush around trying to make things better, but sadly (and desperately) there seems no better to be had.

‘Wait and see’ is such an unsatisfactory phrase. It promises something, but can just as easily yield nothing, more easily in fact as it’s usually a phrase for weasel worders and nothing doers. I should know; my childhood was full of empty wait and sees. Is that what I’m becoming then, just another wait and seer?

Perhaps I should not write this down. Perhaps by writing it down I just make things worse and whoever is in charge will decide to punish me for pointing out His mistakes and lack of fair play. But I tell you he’s not playing fair if this is what you get for being nice to others and seeing the result is simply wiltingly blank; like Joan’s expression when her eyes flick open for a moment.

You don’t work in mysterious ways you bastard. Thank God I don’t believe in you.

7 comments:

  1. Anne Donaldson on FB
    you are on a never ending treadmill and I know there's no consolation in the fact at least she doesn't know what's going on with the extension next door xx

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    1. Andrew Height
      Annoyingly they dropped yet more paperwork for her to sign today concerning the party wall. Well they can go fick themselves, callous arseholes.

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    2. Anne Donaldson
      Just ask them if they are such pillars of the community, don't they have any compassion

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    3. Andrew Height
      They clearly don't and I have told him so in a rather terse email.

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  2. Tim Preston on FB
    I don't want to lecture you about all that we have is the present moment but all that we have is the present moment ....... to do and not focus on the result. Having said that - this is very upsetting. Love to you and yours heart emoticon

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    1. Andrew Height
      I could probably do that Tim. But my wife can't.

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  3. Cloe Fyne on FB
    Just keep surviving for now dad. Much as you can. Something will change one day one way or another and whichever way it is at least it'll be a change. Not that that will help much now. frown emoticon xxxx

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