Sorry, but it takes you over.
Another day like yesterday and the day before and the one
before that and so on and so forth. Everything is on hold, not that everything
was very much in the first place, but this inability to move forwards through
no fault of my own isn’t really me. After all, not moving forwards is usually
my fault and that’s just fine and dandy, but this limbo is quite frankly
horrible.
Of course it isn’t Joan’s fault either. All she was doing
was a good deed by holding open that door for the woman that has destroyed her
life and now even my stone heart breaks when I see her and what she is
becoming. Of course there is always hope, but generally that turns out to be
bollocks along with positive thoughts and God working in mysterious ways.
I’ve never been one for not knowing what to do and have
lived my life by ‘do anything rather than nothing’, but there are times when
there really is nothing to be done. I guess this is one of them.
I’ve become a ‘we’ll have to wait and see’ person for the
first time in my life I think. My natural inclination is to rage and ‘do’ and
rush around trying to make things better, but sadly (and desperately) there
seems no better to be had.
‘Wait and see’ is such an unsatisfactory phrase. It promises
something, but can just as easily yield nothing, more easily in fact as it’s
usually a phrase for weasel worders and nothing doers. I should know; my
childhood was full of empty wait and sees. Is that what I’m becoming then, just
another wait and seer?
Perhaps I should not write this down. Perhaps by writing it
down I just make things worse and whoever is in charge will decide to punish me
for pointing out His mistakes and lack of fair play. But I tell you he’s not
playing fair if this is what you get for being nice to others and seeing the
result is simply wiltingly blank; like Joan’s expression when her eyes flick
open for a moment.
You don’t work in mysterious ways you bastard. Thank God I
don’t believe in you.
Anne Donaldson on FB
ReplyDeleteyou are on a never ending treadmill and I know there's no consolation in the fact at least she doesn't know what's going on with the extension next door xx
Andrew Height
DeleteAnnoyingly they dropped yet more paperwork for her to sign today concerning the party wall. Well they can go fick themselves, callous arseholes.
Anne Donaldson
DeleteJust ask them if they are such pillars of the community, don't they have any compassion
Andrew Height
DeleteThey clearly don't and I have told him so in a rather terse email.
Tim Preston on FB
ReplyDeleteI don't want to lecture you about all that we have is the present moment but all that we have is the present moment ....... to do and not focus on the result. Having said that - this is very upsetting. Love to you and yours heart emoticon
Andrew Height
DeleteI could probably do that Tim. But my wife can't.
Cloe Fyne on FB
ReplyDeleteJust keep surviving for now dad. Much as you can. Something will change one day one way or another and whichever way it is at least it'll be a change. Not that that will help much now. frown emoticon xxxx