Whoops I almost missed out an ‘e’.
I’ve been away as a few of you may have noticed. A few days
away from the real world, time to take stock, have a think and consider what I
need to do to make things easier for myself.
Of course rather than do that, I drank, slept more than usual and generally just wasted my time doing nothing and literally doodling my way into 2016.
On the stroke of midnight I found myself pen in hand and thinking (to paraphrase rock legends The Who) meet the New Year, same as the old year.
Of course rather than do that, I drank, slept more than usual and generally just wasted my time doing nothing and literally doodling my way into 2016.
On the stroke of midnight I found myself pen in hand and thinking (to paraphrase rock legends The Who) meet the New Year, same as the old year.
Well, what did I expect? Repetition is what I do! I’m an old
dog and new tricks are not to be learnt. It’s just my medicine, taken daily,
over and over, in the false hope that there is a cure - and I know that there
really isn’t. Big fish will eat little fish, we are all puppets, don’t go into
the woods, you can run but you can’t hide and even the Ju-Ju Jesus can’t save
me; not from the old year that’s passed and certainly not from the new one to
come.
Of course last year taught me nothing. Well, I may have said
this before, but what did I expect? I upset and angered some people by saying
and writing what I honestly think and believe, even had the police around for saying
my piece and not giving in to bullying, overbearing family figures. And at the
end of 2015 I found myself asking myself out loud as Big Ben bonged and the
fireworks flew on the telly, why do I do this? Why don’t I just stop and give
myself a break? Why don’t I just give in and seek a less angst ridden path?
Actually, why don’t I just throw away my saintly cross, shut the fuck up and
let the ship flounder on the rocks?
Why indeed?
The truth is that I don’t know. I pretend that it’s because
I have no choice, but of course I do. I may not know the why, but I do know
that at the end of the day it’s all about me. For good or bad it’s always been
about me and if I stop telling people what I think, pointing out an alternative
view, simply give in to what people want and be silent; then just who am I? Not
me I think, and perhaps if I did stop then I wouldn’t even exist. I still hear
the echoes of the past. You see little boys should be seen and not heard, but I
haven’t been a boy for a very long time and I don’t think I was ever supposed
to be little.
Sometimes I start to believe that it would be easier to just
STFU and be quiet. Other times I even think that I should. But with great power
comes great responsibility (as someone once said) and although I have no power
and am certainly not great, I do feel a responsibility and I have felt that
responsibility all my life. I feel responsible and that makes it my
responsibility to try to…
Actually, I have no idea what I am trying to do or why and
what I’m feeling responsible for. But the Quangle Wangle must have his hat along with a hook to hang it on.
Anyway it’s a new year. If I were sensible I’d resolve to
turn over a new and calming leaf, to shut up, stand down, move on and give
myself a break. I’d make myself stop feeling responsible and just shut the fuck
up. But I’m not going to. I’m going to keep taking my medicine, regardless of
who I upset and how it upsets my own sweet applecart. I’m a creature of habit
you see and without the blessing of repetition I might just lose my way and God
knows where that would take me - although I might end up in the woods, and I don't want to go there.
Happy New Year chums.
Sam Little on FB
ReplyDeleteNever want you to STFU, words of wisdom from a man who has a past but has a greater future xxxx
Andrew Height
DeleteShuck Sam xx
Emma Cholmondeley on FB
ReplyDeleteNo, no, no - never STFU - I need your wisdom in my life!
Andrew Height
DeleteIf I had wisdom then I would be a much happier man. I have opinions but I don't think that makes me wise smile emoticon
Emma Cholmondeley
DeleteI may only call on it from time to time but you are one of the first I think of when I have a tricky decision to make......you are my voice of wisdom metaphorically sat on my shoulder in times of need. No STFU allowed!
Emma Cholmondeley
DeleteLove the doodle btw!
Paul Whitehouse on FB
ReplyDeleteThat doodle is amazing and would make a fabulous tattoo.
Vicky Sutcliffe on FB
ReplyDeleteNever STFU.... Xx
Iain Marshall
ReplyDeleteNever stfu Andi!
Jayne Butterworth on FB
ReplyDeleteWe love u just the way u r to quote billy joel! Please dont throw this doddle away i want it please. Well it is my 50th on sunday make nice pressie for me ha ha! Prob too late its in the bin or gone to someone else? X